A conversation heard in passing today...
Woman with long braid: My little dog died.
Woman in obnoxious orange sweater: Oh... I'm so sorry.
Woman with long braid: He was very, very old.
Woman in obnoxious orange sweater: I know, losing a pet. That's like losing your child.
Woman with long braid: *without skipping a beat* Oh, no... I think it's worse to lose your pet.
Woman in obnoxious orange sweater: *nods* Yeah, *snickers* they're better than kids.
Woman with long braid: *laughs* So true..
Woman in obnoxious orange sweater. *nods and laughs*
I walk away disgusted.
I probably would have slapped both so hard they would still be seeing stars! What self-control you have!!
ReplyDeleteI am sorry on behalf of mankind that you had to hear such a conversation. Sometimes people suck. Sending you much love.
ReplyDeleteWhat an terrible conversation for you to hear.
ReplyDeleteThey obviously never suffered the loss of a child. I have lost many dogs in my life and yes I did grieve but in no way should people ever, ever make a statement like that. Even if you have never had a child you should be smart enough to know this. Heartless bitches. I am so sorry you had to hear that.
OMG. There are no words for such ignorance. I hope neither of those women ever have to hold their dead baby in their arms
ReplyDeleteOh my goodnes! I am so sorry you had to hear these obviously ignorant women have this conversation! How could they even imply that the life of an animal somehow compares to the lives of our precious CHILDREN??? This infuriates me! People just do not get it! Again, I am so sorry you had to listen to them. I know it must upset you. Hoping you find some peace. xx
ReplyDeletePlease tell me you are kidding? What a horrible, horrible conversation to overhear. I can't believe that people would say something like that.
ReplyDeleteI'm terribly sorry you had to hear those women saying something so awful. Obviously neither of them has ever lost a child or they would not dare to speak so flippantly.
oh my... well first congrats to you for not being a B**** and telling them off.. I've lost both..though I loved my dog since I was 12, it was a billion times worse to lose Ella.. ignorance I guess...sorry you had to listen to that..
ReplyDeleteAre they serious!?! Wow... I would have wanted to just slap them or something! I am so sorry you had to hear this.
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Good for you for walking away -- not so sure I could have.
ReplyDeleteI'm officially disgusted with you. Seriously? Losing a pet is worse?? WTF?! Maybe those women didn't have kids. I can't believe a mother could say that. I don't want to believe a mother would say that. Ugh.
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Ashley
Oh, how awful. I'm sorry you had to overhear that. I don't think I'd have been charitable enough to just walk away - I love my dog, we loved our last dog, but seriously I'd have lost my mind letting them know that losing my baby was way worse. (((Hugs)))
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness. If they only knew how wrong they were...
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't have been able to hold my tongue...
ReplyDeleteI've been reading your blog for a little while now, sometimes I just don't have adequate words so I stay silent. I have to tell you now that I am so sorry for those women's rude comments. I have heard versions of that too and it turns my stomach. I'm so sorry you had to overhear that. Praying for you, and thinking of Peyton today...
ReplyDeleteOH MY GOSH!!!
ReplyDeleteI can't believe that someone could even compare losing a child to losing a pet. Oh I am disgusted too.
No words. They've all been said. Shaking my head with you.
ReplyDeletethat is disgusting.
ReplyDeleteI am blown away by what you heard.
ReplyDeleteGuess those ladies have kids who don't respect them nor care, or else that conversation would have NEVER taken place.
Wow.
I am so sorry you had to listen to that.
One of the forums I sometimes use has a smilie of someone's jaw hitting the ground ... I want that smilie to use here now. I had to read it twice because I honestly couldn't believe I'd read it correctly the first time. I am so sorry you had to bear witness to such stupidity.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry that you had to overhear this. These two were obviously never parents...or I pray they weren't!
ReplyDeleteThe ignorance of some people is astounding. How hurtful to have heard such comments. I would have not been able to keep my mouth shut. I have lost both of my dogs in the last five years and my child. While losing my dogs definitely hurt, there is no pain comparable to that of losing your child. I'm thinking Peyton probably put her arms around you and gave you a loving angel hug at that very moment, and I must say that I truly admire your grace in that moment. Sending you hugs
ReplyDeleteWow, come people are just plain stupid! Sorry you had to hear that. You are so strong to just walk away and show your self control, good for you! Sending hugs your way!
ReplyDeleteWhen my mother had her initial cancer surgery, the surgeon came to us to tell us that it was malignant and it was *bad* half way through the operation. As we tried to gather ourselves together, recover from the news and collect ourselves, we overheard another conversation in the waiting area: two women joking about cancer (getting it, dying from it, possibly ovarian, which is what my mother had, I don't remember the specifics).
ReplyDeleteIt was surreal. We sat there, my brother and father and I, looking at each other: speechless. Later, I would have liked to re-do that moment by saying through tears, "my mother was just given a death sentence of ovarian cancer. Can you make your jokes somewhere else?"
People are stupid. Careless. They don't think, and clearly they have no clue what it means to lose a child. I have lost both, my children and beloved, elderly family pets. Of course, it hurts. Of course, it is an entirely different thing.
I'm sorry you had to hear that. I'm sorry people say things like that. It makes me wonder about humanity.
Please know there are others who understand.
Lucky them to have no idea what they are talking about. How nice for them to think they know that its harder to lose a pet than a child. How interesting that they have come to the conclusion with no real knowledge of what they are talking about. Forming an opinion and speaking it as truth is always so charming. How pleasant to know there are such ginormous, big mouthed, morons living in this world. Now, please excuse me while I go and throw up a little.
ReplyDeleteWow! That just leaves me speechless. I'm not sure how anyone could think those comments are justified. I often wonder if people speak before thinking. And really, how many people talk without taking in to consideration people around them. I would never think to say something as cold as that...even before my losses. A pet compared to a human? Seriously. I know some people adore their pets, and some people even call their pets "furbabies" but a pet dying is in NO way even close to being like loosing a child.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry you had be around ignorant people. *hugs*
You...have...GOT...to...be...kidding...me...
ReplyDeleteThere is NO comparison and obviously these women have never lost a child. It is not a joke and it is nothing to laugh about. I'm sorry you had to hear such a disgusting conversation.
We actually lost a pet today, or my 8 year old daugther did. But as sad as I am for her, even she knows better than the level of stupidity that these ladies showed. I guess it is a reminder that in the end, thinking before you speak is a good thing to do. You never know the story of the person standing beside you in the checkout or wherevere. I honestly would have probably looked at them both and said, 'have you ever lost a child? I have and it is NOT the same you're right about that.' And walked away leaving them there with their mouthes, undoubtedly hanging open. But that is where I am these days, angry. I guess it is another stage that comes and goes.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and kudos for not punching them both right in the mouth!
Totally disgusting. I'm glad you walked away.
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It never ceases to amaze me how ignorant people are who have not suffered the loss of a child.
ReplyDeleteUgggggggh... Just... Wow... I continue to wonder why WE lost our babies that we wanted so much, when all those morons out there who think it wouldn't cause their world to come crashing down have never lost a child. What they said is horrible and inexcusable. I've lost pets who I loved very much, and grandparents, and aunts... But losing my daughter was and continues to be the most difficult loss I could ever experience.
ReplyDeleteMy jaw just dropped! Unbelievable!
ReplyDeleteThis genuinely upsets me! I am SO sorry that you had to hear this! I also am so sorry for those stupid people who think this to be true. I could NEVER compare my baby to my pet, NEVER!
ReplyDeleteAt least you walked away-- I wouldn't have. I would have something something--hopefully dignified like "I disagree" but most likely would have answered "disgusting" and walk away
ReplyDeleteWOW. I wish I was there. Then I could tell them, "Iv'e lost 3 cats and 1 dog, and although they were relly old, like part of the family, and I loved them dearly, it doesn't even come close to burrying my 2 beautiful baby girls." Of course I would've loved to add, "you dumb bitches" but I would censor that. Sorry, I just can't believe how people are just so laissez faire, crude, or just plain insensitive. I am proud of you for just walking away, definately the classier thing to do. Im sorry you had to experience that.
ReplyDeleteI love kids.
ReplyDeleteI love dogs.
I don't love jerks who compare one with the other.