I appreciated this post so much. I always want to tell everyone, Yes we have 3 kids. But my husband, Jared said the same thing to me you have to check first and see how the person its and be ready just in case they say something stupid. I'm due February 6th, on the 1 year anniversary of my son's death and even the nurses said to me: see its a sign from God you lost one and you will get one on the same date. Its painful. Your kids are all beautiful.