tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post4793051993012286513..comments2023-12-28T05:37:28.168-05:00Comments on Once A Mother...: !@#$%^&Once A Motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15974149780531831971noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-19209412220043645712010-09-25T07:51:22.684-04:002010-09-25T07:51:22.684-04:00totally unfair.
Please God let this bluddy SCH bu...totally unfair. <br />Please God let this bluddy SCH bugger off!<br />The snowflakes are so so loved alreadyCazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11612645274970749043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-22610928909478467642010-09-23T23:48:20.704-04:002010-09-23T23:48:20.704-04:00It is too easy to just say, "be joyful during...It is too easy to just say, "be joyful during this pregnancy." Hope is a dangerous, very dangerous thing...Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04683239109034382788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-17439570342577665622010-09-23T17:19:48.577-04:002010-09-23T17:19:48.577-04:00I'll be thinking of you and hoping for shrinki...I'll be thinking of you and hoping for shrinking clots and healthy babes. You do deserve to be able to celebrate this time. Sending hugs.kate hopperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08761820572827505993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-71506166189258446992010-09-23T14:47:59.128-04:002010-09-23T14:47:59.128-04:00I am so sorry to hear. I was told I had 2 SCH rece...I am so sorry to hear. I was told I had 2 SCH recently and was placed on strict bedrest for almost 2 months. <br /><br />I was told the technician measuring can cause a pretty significant margin of error depending on what points they use. <br /><br />I was a success story, I hope you will be too. It took awhile, but I'm completely off of bedrest and can be as active as I want, including running. There may still be some hope.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-51696954351793309472010-09-23T14:44:23.033-04:002010-09-23T14:44:23.033-04:00Oh my dear I cannnot think of anyone more deservin...Oh my dear I cannnot think of anyone more deserving of a break than you. I can only imagine how concerned you must be, on top of eberything else you have suffered. I think those who tell you to embrace the pregnancy with joy are being a little insensitive. If you're still in touch with your therapist maybe you could arrange some phone sessions to help you through. Thinking of you and checking back here very regularly. Elizabeth xxxElizabethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-50565193615105627082010-09-23T00:54:48.174-04:002010-09-23T00:54:48.174-04:00You're right. SO not fair. God can do ALL thin...You're right. SO not fair. God can do ALL things.<br /><br />xo M.Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497823064126116308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-1593199167564177292010-09-22T20:02:34.539-04:002010-09-22T20:02:34.539-04:00Oh Kristin...I just don't know what to say oth...Oh Kristin...I just don't know what to say other than I am so sorry and totally and completely understand why you can't truly 'enjoy' every bit of your pregnancy...how could you and still be realistic? I'm sorry that again, your joy is being stolen and I pray that this stupid clot GOES AWAY. For the love of God, PLEASE GO AWAY, CLOT!<br /><br />And you know, I just said a little prayer of thanks for the compassion that my doctors had---even though the other day I was a little out of joint. I had to go to the front desk for something and my folder was open (I never even see it normally!) and in BIG, BLACK letters was written:<br /><br />VASA PREVIA---FETAL DEMISE.<br /><br />I hated those words and hated them being in that folder and really just wanted to puke at seeing them.<br /><br />And yet--they save me from the heartache that you had to endure at your appointment and for that, I'm so, so, so sorry for you and humbled at my lack of gratitude that my doctors make sure nothing like that happens to me--even if it sickens me that it has to be that way. <br /><br />Constantly, constantly keeping you and those sweet babies in prayer.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-85915251524014628582010-09-22T17:58:18.274-04:002010-09-22T17:58:18.274-04:00I just want to scream at the heavens right now for...I just want to scream at the heavens right now for you. That may not be the "proper" thing to do, but damn... Blame it on the fact that I too had a SCH or the fact that I lost my daughter 3 weeks ago (not due to the SCH, it cleared up on it's own) but I just want to scream "Why?" for you. I cannot imagine what you feel right now, I can only pray for you and that I will do. I read your post and it brought tears to my eyes, you do deserve a break dear friend and I so hope one finds you soon. Keep your chin up:) I know that is easier said than done :( Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.Jessicanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-90843681615499084012010-09-22T14:50:32.782-04:002010-09-22T14:50:32.782-04:00I do not think it is pathetic at all to play the &...I do not think it is pathetic at all to play the "its not fair" card, this is not fair and I am sorry that you have had to endure all that you have. Your feelings are definitely understandable. Been thinking about you even though I haven't commented as much. *hugs*Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07194853103053771968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-36881369517368092802010-09-22T13:50:44.449-04:002010-09-22T13:50:44.449-04:00Crying with you, it's not fair!!! Praying that...Crying with you, it's not fair!!! Praying that the clot goes aways and lets you rest. The fear is so consuming. ((HUGS))Lisettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06486760107232191431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-11121119531107398722010-09-22T13:34:52.136-04:002010-09-22T13:34:52.136-04:00I have been following your blog for awhile and I t...I have been following your blog for awhile and I think of you often. I can't believe the comment your doctor made, even in a large practice these things should be largely noted. I am so sorry that happened to you, especially with all of the other info during that visit. I have lost 2 babies to birth defects and one to miscarriage. I am blessed to have given birth to a healthy child as well...I pray you soon know the wonderful side of parenting your two precious snowflakes!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11197739467327804713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-53059032354024615432010-09-22T11:07:35.636-04:002010-09-22T11:07:35.636-04:00I've also had to repeatedly inform nurses that...I've also had to repeatedly inform nurses that Lyra died. Adds so much to an already stressful visit...ugh. Glad the receptionist helped you with that though.<br />Thinking of you and the snowflakes and hoping so very much that the clot shrinks.Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09811996974976569965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-46797158508024744952010-09-22T10:51:44.018-04:002010-09-22T10:51:44.018-04:00Oh Kristin, I have sat here sobbing & sobbing....Oh Kristin, I have sat here sobbing & sobbing. This is not fair. I am so upset that you have to deal with this.<br /><br />When I was dealing with minor complications, spotting & cramping I could not for the life of me enjoy this pregnancy. It was sucked away with all the worry. I am so sorry you have to feel that each & every day.<br /><br />I am praying that this clot starts to shrink and go away so you can start to enjoy this pregnancy with your snowflakes. Enjoy it in the way you only can after loss.<br /><br />Always thinking of you.Maloryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15474835486480023516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-7708142549853948282010-09-22T09:20:47.852-04:002010-09-22T09:20:47.852-04:00It isn't fair. I hate, HATE, that you are goin...It isn't fair. I hate, HATE, that you are going through this. Why can't it just be easy for you this time around? You have been through more than anyone should have to go through.<br /><br />I'm so glad the babies look good right now. I am hoping and praying that the SCH goes away, or at least shrinks, soon.<br /><br />I'm glad you asked the receptionist to make the note on your chart about Peyton. You shouldn't have to keep enduring comments about how busy you must be with her. <br /><br />Sending you love and hugs.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860497122946287983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-19313242333916159842010-09-22T03:27:49.948-04:002010-09-22T03:27:49.948-04:00This is so terrible. So incredibly horrible.
Is ...This is so terrible. So incredibly horrible.<br /><br />Is there nothing they can do to remove the bloodclot? Is it possible that it will be reabsorbed (is it in the uterine lining)?<br /><br />Explain in your next post how it works when it goes away, that way we can all visualise the positive outcome when we pray for you xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-27806477343389947792010-09-21T23:38:12.244-04:002010-09-21T23:38:12.244-04:00Nooooo!!!!
Damn clot!
I'm so sorry this is h...Nooooo!!!!<br /><br />Damn clot!<br /><br />I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm sorry the first sounds of your babies' heartbeats were not the way it should have been.<br /><br />But thank god they are doing well - I pray for them daily, and for you too.<br /><br />And bravo for asking them to put a note in your file - what a blow to have the doctor say those things. I really don't know why they don't think of putting a cover sheet on your file when you've experiences losses - then the doctors, nurses, whoever, will know the most important thing right up front.<br /><br />I'm sending out positive vibes to the universe for you and your little babies.<br /><br />((Big Hugs))Violet1122https://www.blogger.com/profile/05470143683967710014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-62598534430966903392010-09-21T23:03:14.383-04:002010-09-21T23:03:14.383-04:00It totally isnt fair. You are right. Shout it as...It totally isnt fair. You are right. Shout it as loud as you need.Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-52218734196025939202010-09-21T22:48:30.832-04:002010-09-21T22:48:30.832-04:00I am so sorry, I wish things were easier for you a...I am so sorry, I wish things were easier for you and that you could just get a break. AND I wish doctors would not say such stupid things, that always seems to be the place that I get blindsided too.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10825508701189254822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-41289681767070998922010-09-21T22:41:28.038-04:002010-09-21T22:41:28.038-04:00It is not frakking fair...not at all. And, dammit...It is not frakking fair...not at all. And, dammit, I want it easy for you. I want it good for you. But, most of all, I want those babies to keep growing. Lots and lots of prayers coming your way.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-1017230686767598642010-09-21T22:31:20.546-04:002010-09-21T22:31:20.546-04:00Well, it's not fair. You are 100% correct. I&...Well, it's not fair. You are 100% correct. I'm so sorry you had to learn that the thing is growing instead of shrinking. Praying extra hard that it will begin to absorb, quickly, very quickly.<br /><br />PS any chance that it was a measuring error on the doctor's part?Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18132650070996872540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-68351795415153009672010-09-21T22:26:08.599-04:002010-09-21T22:26:08.599-04:00I am so sorry that this is happening. It is SO unf...I am so sorry that this is happening. It is SO unfair!!! I'm sending you good thoughts and praying this damn clot starts shrinking!!Cape Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16794147638520761158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-56247691633389986722010-09-21T22:16:55.208-04:002010-09-21T22:16:55.208-04:00I am so very sorry that you are going through all ...I am so very sorry that you are going through all of this, nobody should ever have to but especially after how much you have already been through. It is so, so unfair. I wish you and these babies well and hope so much that they are safe and healthy.<br />sending love to you.cdghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13174907373129154516noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-49240773385339008782010-09-21T21:39:29.812-04:002010-09-21T21:39:29.812-04:00Praying LOUD and HARD for you. your babies will be...Praying LOUD and HARD for you. your babies will be ok, i promise!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-58316206710970926512010-09-21T21:12:07.165-04:002010-09-21T21:12:07.165-04:00It's not pathetic at all. I would be frustrat...It's not pathetic at all. I would be frustrating and upset and scared shitless too. In fact I'm pretty sure I did feel like that when I was pregnant with Jasper. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Sending you much love and hugs and wishes for a wonderful and safe arrival of your snowflakes.<br /><br />xxooSophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17663682329663202706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8163203822642488592.post-49631231822518472202010-09-21T21:11:11.834-04:002010-09-21T21:11:11.834-04:00This post made my stomach turn with anxiety. I, t...This post made my stomach turn with anxiety. I, too understand the pain/grief/torture of multiple loss and I can only imagine how scared you must be right now. Thinking of you often and will anxiously await your next post saying how great your little snowflakes look. Thinking of you...Kelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08873287888689350939noreply@blogger.com